Good morning soulful friend,
It was October 2020, when we received the news that my ex-husband (my children's father) had taken his own life! It was also the same month that I had internally decided to step away from the business I had built for 25 years and mentor and coach a woman with whom I had a cultural and language barrier.
In stepped…..doubt…..fear…..lack of confidence.
A lightning bolt rocked our world with shock, disbelief, and questions. My family could barely step into this new reality.
Self-doubt questioned who was I to leave something that had "security, familiarity & reliability?"
Fear of what was next became a dark shadow that followed me around.
And then the most significant step was overcoming a sudden lack of confidence. But was I kidding myself? Life is impermanent, no job is secure, and businesses fail!
I know, I know… , this is supposed to be your Weekly Dose of JOY~~~
There is a happy note to follow.
You don't always have to see the whole staircase; you must take the first step. (even if it is an imperfect one)
In this week's JOLT
️ (Joyfully Overcoming Limited Thinking), I'm sharing what helped me take imperfect action, imperfectly, by listening to my Intuition.
Why does life throw you a curveball just when you decide to make a change?
Why am I now feeling less confident to step out of my comfort zone
Why am I nervous that I may be making a mistake
What if the move I make is the wrong one
What if I make the decision and I regret it?
I'm feeling a bit out of breath
I'm going to take a moment and take some breaths
I know breathing and taking a break helps when I feel like this
I know anytime I've made a significant change, my nervous system is on high alert
I know that I will be ok
I know I am making the right choice for me now
I know that as soon as I take one small step, I will feel better
I know that the Universe supports me
I know I am source energy and fully resourced
I'm feeling better already, knowing that nothing is permanent
I feel better now that I have taken a step toward letting go of the fear
I know my subconscious mind is trying to protect me
I know I can change what I impress on my subconscious mind
I can feel good and then affirm what I desire
I see now how this feels so much better
I see how I'm feeling a bit more confident
I like knowing I have a support system to help guide me
I like how I just turned around the negative feelings I had
I like how I know I'm in control of how I feel
I like that I am staying in this work
I like that I see the results
I like knowing that the Universe is on my side
I am supported
I am safe
I am loved
WHOA!! That is how we JOLT ourselves into feeling more confident️
I recently conducted a Poll in my private Facebook Group ~ pop in and vote for what you'd like me to deliver in the group.
If you are not already a member, ask to join, and I'll let you in!
Joyfully,